Usually, people classify the personalities of different people on the basis of their physique, nature, and appearance. But how they behave generally is also one inevitable aspect that defines people’s personalities. Some of us may be highly outgoing and outspoken, easily making friends with people we meet. On the other hand, some others may be reserved enough to concentrate their energies more towards themselves than on those around them. While the former group is categorized as extroverts, the latter is termed as introverts.
Yes, some of us feel invigorated in the presence of other people. Yet, others simply love their own company. They do not need anyone to enjoy life and develop as a person.
An introvert personality is that which makes a person keeps his thoughts and feelings to himself. Introversion does not often let a person seek inspiration or contentment from an outside source. For that matter, the person is enough in himself. He is his own friend.
Of course, introverts get into touch with people and make friends too. But rarely do they get close to anyone. They like to share their views with one or two very close people. They keep their love for a few selected people and can’t handle parties or a group of people. In most cases, these people create a line which no one can cross. Or else, they prefer sitting quietly and listening while meeting a group. They often come up with one line in between, which is notable. And it never means that they are getting bored. They love to sit in silence when amid too many people.
Extroverts are the people-friendly people. Remaining with their friends and/or those they are familiar with makes them feel utterly comfortable and content. They may feel bored when alone, but they enjoy themselves best when amid a group. Being around people, in fact, makes them energetic and spirited.
The trait of extroversion in a person can make him the centre of attraction at any party. The reason is simple. He is light-hearted, humorous, and above all, outspoken. He can be friends with anyone in a matter of seconds. Extroverts dare to do anything that could bring attention to them, though a few may naturally hold that charm.
Although introvert and extrovert personality types differ from one another on various grounds, the major difference between the two is their source of rejuvenation. While for extroverts, this may mean interaction or excursions with friends and family, the same may mean reading a book or listening to music for introverts.
Introverts are often misunderstood by extrovert personalities, and vice-versa. Introverts are extremely good listeners, but still like to spend most of their time alone. Extroverts tend to believe that these people are shy, depressed and boring. On the contrary, introverts believe that extroverts hardly care about anyone’s feelings and only think about enjoying themselves and partying. Both may be right in their own way, and may still not understand the other fully. But, an introvert and extrovert, if they understand each other, may make the best couple.
|Involved more with themselves.||Involved more with friends and family.|
|Get energized when alone.||Get bored when alone.|
|Have a few friends.||Have a lot of friends.|
|Sit quietly and listen.||Speak a lot and usually remain in limelight.|